Sister Talk

10:03pmAmy
mom is being irresponsible and almost neglectful, dad is in such emotional pain

10:03pmMary
pretty much

10:04pmAmy
it sucks, and mom is starting to call dad "your father" and beginning to not even want to talk to him

10:05pmMary
the "divorcedness" is setting in
even if she tries to deny it is

10:05pmAmy
I was actually naiive enough to think at the beginning of this that things would actually stay friendly between them

10:06pmMary
i did too, since our family was weird enough, and they didnt fight before the divorce much

Amy
yeah
but now all they do is get defensive over finances

10:07pmMary
yeah :/
and that whole "holidays together" thing isnt working out too well

10:10pmAmy
yeah
mom doesn't even go to church anymore. Is Ernie even a real Christian?

10:11pmMary
i dont think he is
and it bothers me
she barely ever goes, and even worse, she is usually at ernies during it

110:17pmAmy
I'm sorry I have set a bad example with Alex

10:17pmMary
amy, you seriously havent
dont even think about it that way
i know you would never do anthing like that, its just not you
and the circumstances are completely different
yeah!
I've noticed
she is such a BAD EXAMPLE!
now that I have seen mom sleeping with a guy who she is not married to and how immoral it is, I am going to stop sleeping in the same bed with Alex when we go to his mom's, even if it usually is an air matress in the living room right next to his mom's room
it's just not appropriate
if it's not appropriate for mom, it is not for me
I can't tell her it is inappropriate and then do it myself
(it should be the other way around! she should be the one setting the example for me not to do it!)

10:13pmMary
Dang! i just looked up and saw like a paragraph
lol
let me read a sec
i know
she should be the one going to church, and counceling, and coming home at a decent hour and being responsible to set an example for me
and i feel like she is acting like the teenager

10:17pmAmy
I'm sorry I have set a bad example with Alex

10:17pmMary
amy, you seriously havent
dont even think about it that way
i know you would never do anthing like that, its just not you
and the circumstances are completely different